Witch owed Wizard something like 2k for her 31% of things for 2007; he basically told her to pay up because nto only was he paying 2200/monthly in child support but he was also paying 100% of activities...so he finally stood up for himself...considering he was paying of her debt too.
Oh at this point they'd been divorced for about 18 months and her parents had paid of her CC's twice, spent the 40k that she got from the settlement in SIX MONTHS...and only 15k was on the house. She continiously spent money like it was water AND had her van repo'd...so she decided bankruptcy was the answer, I still think it was lie to get out of paying for her portion or just to get sympathy but who cares at this point.
-----Original Message-----
From: Witch
Sent: Monday, November 26, 2007 11:25 AM
To: Wizard
Subject: RE: Bankruptcy
Wizard, I can put your money in the bankruptcy and that is what my attorney recommends. As I don't have much debt a couple thousand dollars...it is just the day to day living that is making it hard. I should have never bought the house. I know that now and should have went with my thinking of apartment renting and the kids sharing a bedroom. I think we learn from our mistakes and now my life is a mess and all things ruined. I appreciate that you won't come after me for it....but honestly I can't set up a payment plan with you anyway because of the pending bankruptcy..it's not allowed. Once this is settled I will try and give you money along the way. I think we can both be better about communicating...like medical bills, the school lunches etc. It seems we aren't doing as well as we used to. I know we agreed that the kids lives wouldn't change but just as with birthdays, holidays etc. I don't think we were thinking forward enough. We said things that are just not realistic and if we had the divorce chat with them and us now..I think that conversation would look different. I don't know that I will always even after this as I said the debt I have isn't huge...the car was a chunk but the new car will still leave me tight....so we / I am going to have to make a lot of difficult choices from this point on. If it's extra lessons, the viola, whatever and I can't pay for it I just can't. I am sorry for all of this and I want them to have all they want and need....that is just not the reality of my world anymore...it has to be the needs on my end from now on. I am sorry. I am sorry for them and I am sorry to you as I know you want them to succeed but financially I may need what the coach gives them sometimes to be enough...and I may need them not to play indoor soccer and just have some time off. I most likely will not be traveling out of town with the team for tournaments etc...if it is not my week with them. I hate all of this as you know because I want to be there for them and want them to be the best they can be. I guess reality has caught up with me and I know at the end of the day as long as they are happy, healthy and loved they will be okay. I am sorry.
***side bar...she still traveled out of town; her mom and dad gave her one of their cars to use for about six months and then she bought the van that she now drives and it costs her over $500/month...she told Lion so that's how I know.
From: Wizard
Sent: Monday, November 26, 2007 11:16 AM
To: Witch
Subject: RE: Bankruptcy
Ok. Listen I am not going to come after you for the past bills in regards to the kids activities. But for the future I will communicate what the kids need in regards to their activities and I would appreciate if you would pay your portion. Is that Fair?
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