Weekend

This weekend was super busy jam packed full of fun, laughter and love!!! Last week was a pretty stressful week for me. All analyzing, adjusting, thinking and freaking out I did paid off in some way...journaling it out definitely helped and I talked to Wizard over the weekend about how I've been feeling and as usual he 'surprised' me by being very receptive :) I guess thats what good relationships are made of....communication and lots of it! He was very understanding regarding all the change and the feelings I've been having about it, we talked about me looking at his blackberry and while it didn't go over well he didn't freak out, he just said he had nothing to hide and I'm welcome to look anytime BUT he was hurt that I felt the need to look and that moving forward with a date, etc was something that we needed to think about because obviously I don't trust him....valid, very valid. I do trust him like I said before but geesh, I just didn't like the chatting going on that's all.

However, I read over my post from the other day about feeling alienated (sp) from SIL and Witch and I don't feel that way about Witch so much as I do SIL and I'm not sure why.....I felt that way on Thursday but I don't feel that way now, go figure! I did talk to him about the email to SIL and he said that he wanted to know about the gift and he also wanted to check on her and see how she was because she had seemed very down the last couple of times they talked.

Part of me says whatever and the other part of me says what is there to really care about?! Nothing, if I look at it rationally I don't care so I'm letting that go and if I do feel alienated again it will be brought up. Friday was a lot of fun, Wizard took a 1/2 day off to take Scarecrow to the movies, Lion went to the movies with a friend and Munchkin stayed home with the nanny...I
worked, LOL When I got home everything was done and we had a nice relaxing evening.

I met the friends at Bravo! and had dinner and then we went to see the band at Flanagan's and we had a total blast!!! It was some much needed girl time for me. I got home later than I watned but I wasn't stressed about it like I have been in the past so I was happy about that :) The kids
just hung out with Wizard and got ready for their games on Saturday. Saturday started at 7am....after going to bed about 2:30am...nice! Wizard and I got up and started getting ready.. Scarecrow had practice at 8-9 and Lion had a 9:45am game so she and Wizard were gone at 8am, I took Scarecrow to practice came home got Munchkin ready, had breakfast with him and then got ready myself. I picked Scarecrow up from practice brought her home to change and then we headed to the field to watch Lion's game. It was a good game they lost but the game was good,
it's interesting to sit on the sidelines and watch a team totally defeat themselves because that's what they did. After the first game Munchkin and I headed back home to go to a neighbor's daughter's birthday party which was a lot of fun for both of us. Everything was so cute and girly, the food was good and the people were really nice, so we had fun. After the party I laid Munchkin down for a nap and he slept for 2.5 hours....the amazing part is that the Kidz n Kamp fundraiser was going on in our backyard (our house backs up to the common area) and there was band playing and people being loud the WHOLE time and he slept right through it!

Wizard and the girls along with a few softball friends got home about 8 (after their 6:30pm game) and we hung out, chatted with neighbors, the kids ran around and had fun, we had friends come
over and hang out...it was just a lot of fun!!! They ended up raising $19,541 for KNK so that was AWESOME!!! We got to bed about midnight...wooo hoo

Sunday started much later than Saturday...we got to sleep in until 9am, LOL I remember when 9am was early for me....whew! Lion only had one game on Sunday so we were gone at noon and got home about 3:30pm and the rest of the afternoon we spent playing with the girls while Munchkin napped...it was a blast, we laughed, and joked it was just good family fun. at about 5:30pm we had the girls pack their stuff for their moms and Wizard took them home...that part
totally sucks! But, next week is vacation so we'll have a blast in Niagara and Montreal!!!

TinMan got home from Hilton Head late Saturday night so he'll be home Wed....for GOOD...I'm so happy!!!

This week we will be finishing TinMan's room, only have to paint the trim, touch up the helmet stripe and put the OSU logos on the walls, two walls are scarlet and two walls are gray it looks amazing!!! The carpet gets installed on Thursday and we'll be done :) For TinMan we have football camp in the evenings next week with lifting in MWF and that's about it....thank
goodness