Fun with the SIL

Backstabbing, faced, bitch SIL....did I mention money hungry; called Wizard's mom nuts and a few other things but is up her ass!

Here's the thing, Wizard and SIL were once VERY close, Witch and SIL were close at one point too over the years off and on but after the divorce SIL really sided with Wizard and she told me so many crazy stories about Witch mostly to do with the kids but then one day (I blogged it) she just all of the sudden switched. SIL and Witch had a SUPER ugly falling out to the poin that Witch told Wizard SIL was a back stabber...little did we know she wasn't lying and it was after I had leaned on her and confided in her...this email chain is a result of all the hurt and anger I felt about 1. Wizard's family siding with Witch and 2. being stabbed in the back when I trusted her.

This is also the same woman who wouldn't let her husband Wizard's brother congratulate him after we were married and neither of them came to our reception, their children came with their Grandfather.


From: SIL
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 4:17 PM
To: Dorothy; Wizard
Subject: RE: present

By the way...S's name is spelled SY. I know how to spell all of your kids' names.


-----Original Message-----
From: Dorothy
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 4:14 PM
To:SIL
Cc:Wizard
Subject: RE: present

You're welcome

From: SIL
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 4:12 PM
To: Dorothy; Wizard
Subject: RE: present

Dorothy and Wizard: I am at work...working...I'm sorry but I don't have time to convince either of you that to S it's not about what adults are coming but it IS about what kids are coming. I'm sorry that you think my daughter's birthday party has adults being invited...they weren't. There will be 26 kids there and I can guarantee you that IF any adults are there S won't even notice. I'm done talking about it...if you'd like to discuss it further feel free to call me while I'm not at work.
Thanks!

-----Original Message-----
From: Dorothy
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 4:04 PM
To: SIL
Subject: RE: present

You're right it is about a 7 year old birthday party, Wiards's niece, as well. Its not about the children and how they get there it's about S's uncle not being invited to the party at all.

From: SIL
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 4:02 PM
To: Dorothy
Subject: RE: present

Dorothy: While you or Wizard might think this is another slap in the face and that it's all about you guys...it's not...it's about a 7 year old having a birthday party that desperately wanted her cousins, Lion, Scarecrow, and Munchkin, to be there. S, myself, brother or anyone doesn't care how they get there she just wants them to be there. With that said, please pass on this information to Wizard (as I'm sure you will). ***Funny thing here is the Oz children haven't been invited to a SIL children's party in about two years and now it's suddenly a must***

Thanks.

-----Original Message-----
From: dorothy
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 3:53 PM
To: SIL
Subject: RE: present

He didn't ask me to tell you and its not totally about the kids; why weren't we invited? Its just another slap in the face, that's all.

From: SIL
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 3:49 PM
To: Dorothy
Subject: present

Well I'm sorry that Wizard feels the need to have you tell me that...besides I really didn't know whose week it was when I gave the invite to Witch at the soccer game two Saturdays ago.

-----Original Message-----
From: dorothy
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 3:18 PM
To: SIL
Subject: RE: present

Just want to make it convenient for everyone and this seems easiest. Also wanted to let you know that you hurt Wizard's feelings by not inviting him and the kids since it's his week.

From: SIL
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 3:16 PM
To: Dorothy
Subject: RE: present

That's fine...it's no big deal either way!

-----Original Message-----
From: Dorothy
Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 3:03 PM
To: SIL
Subject: present

Hey, Since Witch will be bringing the kids with her on Sunday, I'll send our gift with them, sound good?