Step-Mother's(parent) Bill of Rights

I found this on my new guilty pleasure Wicked Stepmom's blog...I'll comment below.

1. I will be part of the decision-making process in my marriage and family at all times. **totally agree with 100%, it's my family and my life too.
2. People outside the immediate family - including ex-wives, in-laws and adult children - cannot make plans that affect my life without my consent. **sure they can doesn't mean I'll be there.
3. I will not be responsible for the welfare of children for whom I can set no limits. 100% agree...I can't discipline then I ain't responsible
4. I must be consulted about which children will live with us, when they can visit and how long they will stay. this is bogus and rude; maybe a discussion around it but c'mon if you're marrying a man with children he's just that WITH CHILDREN...dumbass
5. I will not be solely responsible for housework; chores will be distributed fairly. This is LAW in my house for everyone, not just the step kids
6. I will be consulted regarding all family financial matters. True dat!
7. Others may not violate my private space at home, nor take or use my possessions without my permission.
8. I will never be treated as an "outsider" in my own home.
9. My husband and stepchildren must treat me with respect.
10. Our marriage is our first priority, and we will address all issues together.

Seriously the last four....unless you're a complete pile of mush and have no self respect these are a given of ANY person in your life...or maybe that's just me. I'm often accused of being a hard ass but whatever!