:) to :(

Why is it that when women have a bad day men are all 'weird'....they make a HUGE deal out of it, like we don't know how to handle things....seriously?! I know how to handle stress but today is a day when I'm just in general frustrated and my stupid ass husband says 'well at least I know what to expect'....how about you go fuck yourself.

Last evening was one of the BEST evenings I've had in a REALLY long time! Wizard took Lion to a friends to hit (she plays softball and this is what you'll hear about for the next 4-5 months) so they were gone for a couple of hours, Munchkin, Scarecrow and I took a walk around the block and then got their bikes out and rode 1/4 way around the block before turning around because Munchkin was tired LOL after that we got out the lacrosse sticks and they played a bit with the neighbor kids D and T; then we played croquet (sp) and then went and picked up TinMan from practice...good times. When TinMan got home he ate as did the other two and then took his shower so he didn't stink like a boy anymore, LOL Munchkin took a bath and then TinMan did his HW WITHOUT argument....read again WITHOUT argument!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yay! My night was complete.

Now, no night is complete with out bickering with the husband or bitching about Lion...whom I spent all of maybe an hour with all evening. So we're all in our room looking over the papers I just received from a friend about a big game, we've picked out different things to frame for each child's room as well as Wizard's office. Lion asks if she can have one...now to frame this stuff isn't cheap because its custom mat so I asked her if she was getting it because everyone else was or because she really wanted it to show her pride and she asked if it would match her room and I answered her no and she made a smartass comment about "well it doesn't matter anyway because it's been 8 months and my room isn't painted yet." It takes a certain amount of balls to say something like that to me and Scarecrow's eyes popped out of her head, I look at Lion and said you know...thanks for appreciating me, it's comments like that that make me not want to paint your room...she walked out of the room. I packed up the rest of the papers and took Munchkin to bed since it was 9pm. As Wizard and I are putting Munchkin to bed he asks what's wrong, I say nothing but he pushes and I start to tell him and mid sentence he cuts me off and says I don't want to hear it...so I shut up. For the next hour we debated...not argued but debated about Lion being disrespectful to me, I'm done. Basically I'm in no mood to do the room, 1. we save for everything we do and 2. I'd rather do Scarecrow's room where it will be appreciated. Lion does nothing but the find the negative in EVERY situation and I'm so over that bullshit it's not even funny. This morning she came into our bathroom while we were getting ready and I was like dude it's 8:10 you need to get moving, she says there's not bowls, I was like then get one out of the dishwasher, it says clean on it....her response 'well the weren't clean last night'. Wizard says I'm overreacting and maybe I am but I'm not going to take the smartass stuff....I'll just distance myself from her and she can be BFFs with her mother...period. She can live in the lemon yellow room with flowers until SHE'S ready to paint it.......

That's all...I thought this was going to be a positive post....guess not.